Limerence

Limerence

ˈlimər(ə)n(t)s

Noun

  • A state of being infatuated or obsessed with another person, typically characterized by a strong desire for reciprocation of one’s feelings but not primarily for a sexual relationship.

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Example Sentences

“What she felt wasn’t love so much as limerence — intense, distracting, and exhausting.”

“The early weeks of the new relationship were fueled by limerence, not long-term compatibility.”

“Once the limerence faded, they finally saw each other clearly.”

Word Origin

English, 1970s

Why this word?

If you’ve ever had an intense crush that felt so overwhelming you couldn’t concentrate on anything else, you’ve experienced limerence. This word was coined in the 1970s to encompass a feeling of infatuation or obsession with another person. The word doesn’t seem to be rooted in any other language; “limer” is an arbitrary syllable, and the suffix “-ence” is used to form nouns that denote a quality or action.

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